October 2019

Traveling for a year with everything you might need to work and live on your back gets exhausting. So most of you are going to say, “Well, I could have told you that Kathleen!”. It’s not that I didn’t carefully think this through… it’s that the reality of this lifestyle is much different than the travel bloggers lead you to believe.
Many of you have commented on how I am “living the dream” – and I definitely am living MY dream. But today, I thought I would give you an idea of what some of my challenges are – and I think many, if not most of you would say, “that is NOT my idea of travel”!

When I asked my employer if I could work remotely from Europe (because I already had been working remotely while sitting in my office in Kentucky), he was very supportive and gave me lots of good tips for being successful. However, at that time, my plan was to house sit for extended periods of time and stay close to members of my church and be immersed in their communities and families. That is the piece that has not worked out. Instead, in order to stay within my daily budget, I have been staying in hostels and airbnb’s.

While hostels are safe and great places to meet other travelers, they are noisy (both day and night). You are often in bunk rooms with 8-10 other people who come in at all hours of the night and leave early in the morning to catch their tours, busses and planes. You can imagine all of the noise involved with packing up, showering etc. None of this makes for a good night’s sleep.
Airbnb’s are great. I love staying with families in their homes in particular. Single, private rooms and baths are usually the norm for me here. What a luxury a bath can be after sharing a tiny bathroom with 7 other women! Here, I have a kitchen in which to cook, and the use of strong, steady wifi and a quiet place to work. The draw back here is that if you are in an Airbnb alone – it can be quite lonely. Most of these locations are not central in the city (due to expense) and I often get isolated in a suburb without good public transportation or available groceries.

There are limits to the number of days you can stay in either hostels or airbnb’s due to previously scheduled guests, so I find myself moving around much of the time – usually every 3-4 days. The effort it takes to find new accommodations, locate the correct bus, rail or walking route, and finding secure storage for my belongings while I wait for check in/out times is staggering. Not to mention the intermittent wifi. There are days when all of my decision making brain cells are used up by 10:00am!
Laundry is another issue entirely. As I have previously described, doing a load of laundry is nothing like what we are used to in the US. It is the single most time consuming activity I find myself involved in. Because I can’t carry a drying rack with me, and most people don’t own dryers (tumblers), I always seem to have something drying and waiting to be repacked. I have only come across one self-serve laundry facility. Most cities offer a drop off service and charge by the kilo which is very expensive – much like it would be in the states to have someone else do your laundry.

Then there are the little things like when my bluetooth mouse broke last week. I can’t just order another one from Amazon and I am unable to have anything shipped to me (without and address). So far, I have been unable to locate a store that sells this item. Or when I needed a one cent coin in Euros to blow dry my hair and all I had were coins in Pounds….. And haircuts in foreign countries are for an entirely different discussion! You never know what you are going to get.
Food is another constant challenge. Unlike when I travel on vacation and have a budget for eating out at nice restaurants, much of my food has to be purchased in markets for a day or two at a time. Storage and transportation of these items is also a challenge. I find myself craving my daily salads that are not easy to find and that are very different here. With Scotland and Ireland both being islands, fresh produce is flown in and very little is grown here. However, that which is grown here (like strawberries) are delicious and have none of our pesticides or preservatives. Produce is expensive and often close to expiration in the stores. The groceries do not stock the quantities that we have in the US because of spoilage. So that means a whole different way of eating. Which is okay and part of why I came. But I am still trying to figure out good solutions while always on the move.

Now, here is the good news… There are many benefits to this lifestyle as well! First of all, I don’t have to make my bed, or wash the sheets, or do many dishes, or clean bathrooms or anything! Those of you who know me, know that that is a welcome break.
My friend Lisa warned me about some of these feelings. She said, “Six weeks in is the transition from vacationer to traveler…If you don’t get a little depressed about now, it would be strange. So, when it hits, know it means you are doing it right!” I am so grateful for the encouragement I have had from my friends and family along this journey.
And I want to thank my friend Becky who sent me that meme that opened this blog. It came at a point in my travels when I needed it most. As it turns out, you can search the world over, but those that travel with you in your heart are the most meaningful discoveries of all.



















































































































































































































